In life, most of us have the tendency to give people instructions rather than explaining the rationale behind our intentions. While this is acceptable in an emergency (such as rushing to save lives during a fire and there’s no time for communication), it is not advisable for us to provide instructions and directions without an explanation in normal circumstances. This is because providing the rationale behind the reasons creates mutual understanding and respect between yourself and others.

Take for instance, your class discussion session. As a member of your team, will it be better if you simply issue instructions or take the time to explain your choice? Often, you gain the respect of your peers when you explain rather than simply giving directions.

Try this technique the next time you collaborate with your team mates and feel the difference.